Woman to Woman.

In an earlier post I discussed being in a not so monogamous relationship, or being party to someone elses partner’s infidelity. Well what happens when that someone else finds out that you are creeping with her man, or you find out that some other sl-t is sleeping with your guy? What do you do on either side of this sure to be sticky situation?

Other woman; now there are a number of things that you can do when approached by the “girlfriend” and your reaction should be based soley on your situation and understanding with the “boyfriend”, and your sobriety level. Now if you are/were well aware of his relationship with his girlfriend then you already know that when she approaches you about the situation you cannot be the one on the defense as if she is the one in the “wrong”. Also this is not the forum to go and dish all the dirt on you and her “boyfriends” relationship. In this situation you should in my opinion “take one for the team”, and deny, deny, deny. You already know your place to stay there…..on the other hand if you are not aware of GF act in any manner that you choose…I hate a liar.

Girlfriend; Becareful how you approach this situation because it is possible that the other woman knew nothing about you. If she did then act accordingly but if she did not then your beef is not with her but with your boo.